Family Men of The BSL do you regret it on some level?

[Spray_resistant]

Spray was married once briefly got out without a scratch, no kids almost 40 and simply am very happy with my decision and partially luck.

Other than this house I have no debt and made not life altering decisions which drastically limited my options.

In addition to that I enjoyed my entire young adulthood and had alot of fun, sure some ups and downs, a few mistakes here and there which set me back a bit at times but I am so so glad I never had a family.

So what are your thoughts, are you happy with the wife and kids or do you wish you did it all differently?

[FinitoxDinamita]

Getting married and settling down is one of the best decisions ive made in my life. I dont regret it at all. I love having a family of my own. Knowing that there are people who genuinely care for me is an indescribable feeling.

Everything I do and every decision I make affects my family so ive become more of a balanced person. I dont pop off and do ****** sht like I used to. I think once and think twice before making any moves.

I love having kids man. They are everything to me literally. When I feel like giving up, I think about them and it gives me superhuman strength. I wont lay down for anything.

But of course there are ups and downs. There are times when I miss my youth and the freedom that came with it. When you are a family man, you no longer belong to yourself, if that makes sense. You have to suppress so many things that It can be overwhelming at times. I can’t be me.

But I ask myself if I can go back 20 years, would I? And the answer is no ultimately. The best time in life is right now, this moment. I stopped thinking about the past and all the emotional bullsht. I love where I am right now and Im hella excited about the future.

To each his own but if you meet the right woman, hold on to her for dear life and dont lose out. I often tell my younger friends that a woman can either make or break a man. The wrong woman can poison everything you do, but when it’s the right woman, they can literally help you excel in everything. Ever since I met my wife, most of the things I touch turns into gold and I dont mean it figuratively either. She is such a great supplement to my life, I will always be loyal to her.